inspiring passage

I once read this passage from my bestfriend's blog and I do really like what is written there. She took it from a novel and at that time I didn't even think to buy the novel until last week I went to a book store. I found the novel in which the passage is written. I bought the novel and read the passage once again.

"As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. you'll have your heart broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friends or maybe even fall in love with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by.

so take lots of pictures, laugh a lot, forgive freely, and love like you've never hurt. life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. You just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you, speak out, dance in pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend in need, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, and smile until your face hurts. don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back."

-Antalogi Rasa- 

From that passage, we can see that we should forgive freely because every second we spend angry or upset is a second of happiness we can never really get back. It's just so true. But, the problem is sometimes after you forgive someone or even yourself freely, you just hardly forget the thing that makes you disappointed. That makes you angry or sad or upset. It's like forgiven but not forgotten. And it gradually makes wound in your heart. It actually takes longer time to heal the wound because the wound is unseen and it is deep inside your heart. However, many people said that time could heal the unseen wound. let's wait and see. could time really heal the unseen wound? no one knows.